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Sinais denunciam pessoas que mentem na internet; veja quais são

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Se normalmente temos dificuldade em descobrir quando alguém está mentindo pessoalmente, na internet é ainda mais difícil. Pesquisadores da universidade de Wisconsin-Madison e também da faculdade de Cornell, nos Estados Unidos, publicaram recentemente um estudo sugerindo que podemos identificar, sim, mentirosos virtuais através de sinais linguísticos.

A pesquisa "What Lies Beneath: The Linguistic Traces of Deception in Online Dating Profiles", publicada na edição de fevereiro do "Journal of Communication", analisou as descrições pessoais dos perfis de sites de relacionamento para saber se os usuários estavam sendo sinceros. Para isso, 78 pessoas de quatro sites distintos tiveram suas alturas, pesos e idades comparadas com suas fotos e descrições dos perfis.

A análise linguística desse grupo revelou padrões de mentiras em suas versões virtuais, como:

O que eles e elas mentem A pesquisa revela que uma das mentiras mais comuns em sites de relacionamento tem a ver com o peso. As mulheres tendem a diminuir, em média, quatro quilos em relação ao que realmente têm, enquanto os homens tiram um pouco mais de meio quilo. Entre outras mentiras, metade dos participantes alterou a altura real e cerca de 20% disseram ter uma idade diferente do que realmente têm. Para ler o estudo completo, em inglês, clique aqui.

- Perfis mentirosos geralmente usam palavras de negação nas descrições. Por exemplo: em vez de dizer que está "feliz", acaba dizendo que "não está triste".

- Quanto mais mentiroso for o perfil, menor a chance de ser usado o pronome "eu". De acordo com o estudo, os usuários querem se distanciar de suas declarações enganosas.

- As descrições dos perfis tendem a ser curtas e vagas, uma forma de evitar uma rede de dados falsos. Quanto menos escrevem, menos mentiras precisarão lembrar e explicar depois.

- Se mentem sobre sua forma física, a pesquisa identificou que os usuários evitam tocar no assunto (como alimentação ou detalhes sobre o corpo) e compensam a mentira estimulando outros assuntos, como o trabalho, por exemplo.

Com os padrões descobertos, os pesquisadores conseguiram identificar que os usuários mentiam 65% das vezes, número significativo comparado ao de uma pessoa comum, que, de acordo com estudos anteriores, fica abaixo de 50%.

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Oct 15, '10 4:12 PM by Denise for users lovelythunder and denisemiranda1

John, we were talking since May. Six months until now. I don't know what are your impressions about me, that time is long but we didn't really talk too much. We just shared things, but I continue without knowing many things about you and your life. And also you don't know practically anything about me and my life. I don't know if you want talk to me much more as we have shared in these six months. Or if you want to keep the things as they are. It's Internet, not the true life. I don't know if you want to have a true friendship, or just share songs, videos, pics. If you want, you can talk more and about other subject to be able to know better each other. But if you prefer not change the way we are in touch, no problem for me. Waiting your answer. Kisses, Denise

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denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 You can ask me what you want.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 granny?

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 21, '10 denisemiranda1 said You didn't go to Russia this year, correct?  Denise, Denise, Denise............................. you SAW and commented on my photos from my 2010 trip..... what can I say more.......this beats all.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 21, '10 denisemiranda1 said Really 1955...maybe 1952,51?  One more remark like this and I delete this complete post.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 21, '10 denisemiranda1 said Please, don't be angry with me,  Denise, I am not angry with you. But: when I tell you about my life, and you keep telling me I am a liar because Laura's story is different, I recommend you to read my above first statement about your allegations. If I am not the person you are most interested in but Laura: ask the one who you apparently trust much more than me: your friend Norman. He can tell you all you want to know about Laura, and more. I at least try to tell something: all I know about you is that you work for the government and your daughter's name is Laura and the one line you told me about your granny.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 21, '10 denisemiranda1 said What is totally impossible to me to understand is how Julie never noticed you were a man  Because I am good, very good. And as Laura I was Laura/Janette. And you skip or forget one thing: I really cared about Julie; and you have absolutely no clue how important I was in Julie's life.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 Please, don't be angry with me,

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10, edited on Oct 21, '10 I want to know about the time before the illness, and after the illness, more about the 10 or 15 years before the illness? How was your life? some special lover? And the work, studies, I know you are not a 'work man', you like read, study, good music, you are a cult man.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 Really 1955...maybe 1952,51?

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 I am here for you, but I need to trust on you.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 What is totally impossible to me to understand is how Julie never noticed you were a man, you talk as a man, during 2 years she thought you were a woman, I cannot believe, and she wrote in her page she used the webcam with Laura, or she is lying or...( don't have the answer). I know to keep your friend in a solid base, without lies, John,( I hope your name is really John), I need a friend and maybe you too, so lets talk in a true way, to really feel comfortable one with the other, let's give a chance to the true friendship.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10, edited on Oct 21, '10 About the travel to Russia( that you posted the photos) it was before your illness, isn't it? You didn't go to Russia this year, correct?

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 21, '10 OK.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 21, '10 Wishing you a perfect day and I hope we continue TALKING soon beijos John

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 20, '10, edited on Oct 20, '10 Ok, when I read your messages I understand you have read my story about my life and are disappointed about what is written there. I also know Norman still plays a major role in your life (he must be an amazing man) and that your friend Norman and you are much more interested in the story of Laura Luamerava than in mine. Which is fine with me too, but I first thought you were interested in me. The story of Laura Luamerava has some autobiographical influences about my life, it doesn't mean these two stories are exactly identical. When you want to know more about Laura Luamerava you have to keep three things in mind: - Laura Luamerava was invented by me - Norman never met Laura, what he knows about her he knows from chats with her and from what she wrote in Multiply and Yahoo 360 - I have a memory loss about Laura's illness in the past two years (according to the dr's this memory loss is probably incurable) When you want to know more about Laura I suggest you contact Norman and inquire him about what he knows about her: I think his memory must be way better than mine and didn't had any damage the past few years. But when you want to know more about me, feel free to ask\ and I will continue my life story and I can tell you I never wrote this story before, nor have told.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 20, '10 born in 1955, first Russia trip in 2005

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10, edited on Oct 21, '10 In those photos we were in Russia obviously they were taken before you became ill( and not recently because after your returning from the hospital you won't have enough energy to make such a big and tiring trip. I remember you told me Laura was to Russia in 2003 and you in 2005...5,7 years ago...if you were born in 1960 now you are 50, in those photos you were 45,43...sorry but in those photos you have the appearance of a man with more than 50, you don't not need to say a wrong age for me. Let's talk in a open way, no more reasons for lies.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10, edited on Oct 21, '10 Talk more why you decide to be a teacher? Norman told me you ( as Laura) worked in a library, Norman told me many things about you, but all the time we were talking about you he never looked at my face, very strange, he told me you live in a place where live old people and the nurses go frequently to give assistance, he even showed me a photo of Janette, she seemed really a lesbian, very strange person, but Norman was incomfortable and, maybe at the same time, I took the impression he liked you, of course, but he was curious about you and he though many things didn't make sense. We were face to face in a room in Salvador 2 and a half years ago and was me who started talking about Luamerva and he became really upset/uncomfortable. Talk also more about the present, what kind of job you are doing still ill? Do you have enough energy to give classes, or what are you really doing to have money? Is there any kind of security in Holland for people who became very ill as you were? Please, you told me you are very tired most of the time, so I cannot imagine what kind of job you can do? And after May this year,when I suppose you return from comma, ( were you really in comma?) what the doctors said about the cancer?

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10 yes, but there is one difference in the year you born and the year Laura was born, she said me, more than one time, she was born in 1955, now you say you were born in 1960, what is correct?

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10 Laura Luamerava told me she was born in 1955.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 19, '10 I hope you are not to mad at me and if think the above is interesting for you and if you want me to continue, please let me know....................

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 19, '10 My name is John and I was the first-born child of my parents, born in 1960 when finally the first signs of the rebuilding of my country became visible, since in World War II the complete economy here was destroyed by the Nazi-Germans and everything of any value was also stolen by them. My father was a technician in the Dutch (then) National Telephone Company, my mom was in your unmarried years a seamstress in a private clothing and fashion atelier. I got a sister and a brother both younger than me. My parents grew up in poverty due to the war and both were sent away from their families during the war to get extra feeding in places far away from home in the countryside where was still some food left thanks to the local farmers. They wanted a better future and childhood then they have had. My mom always stimulated me to read and it is from her I got my interest in history awakened. At primary school I was a very quiet pupil and not particularly brilliant. I didn't like it to fight or do very rough games, I didn't like sports very much but I had some good friends. At high school everything changed. I became a very easy learning student who spent more time in having fun than to be a brilliant pupil, but funny enough my grades were always perfect and I was never rude or disrespectful to teachers, but I was great in disturbing lessons by making the most hilarious fun. In the revolutionary changes in society in the late 60's also education had some changes, at high schools student parliaments were organized and I was chosen 3 years in a row as the Chairman of this parliament, a discussion table with teachers and chosen students. I also had my own key to the school because I also wrote, printed and issued the student-news-paper....... (on my own - lol). In those years I also finally did some sports like speed-skating and cycling. In my free time I earned some money as a free lance postman. In spite of my knowledge I could be extremely funny and witty, I was also quite insecure about myself, but I think more adolescents know this problem: I was convinced I was physically very unattractive and I never noticed it when girls showed interest in me. This doesn't mean I never had girlfriends, of course I did, but I was always surprised when it happened.... Needless to add I was also the organizer of all the school parties and was responsible for the music.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 19, '10 You are so very right: I was about to answer this message when something happened that I couldn't ignore in the family. I am very sorry, but all went so quick I couldn't write you earlier - I also had a networkproblem with the provider. I don't want you crazy because of me, perhaps in another version but not like this......

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10 It's not me, or even Norman, but YOU who drive us crazy...using your own words.

denisemiranda1 wrote on Oct 19, '10 I really don't know what to say to you more...

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 17, '10 I am sorry to see you deleted a reply because I really going to tell you more about me and my life, my Sundays are not my best of days and i miss you, I came out of my bed this night to see if there was something from you here....................... kisssssssssssssss

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edit delete reply Yes, I want to know many things about you as a person and about your past life. You are much more intriguing than me, I don't know anything about you, I've just discovered you are a teacher in the post of TDAH when I told you I have TDAH and you know a bit more about me. Don't be shine lol ( I know you are not shine, but a mysterious man, this is charming, of course, but share more personal things with me.) I am curious about the men you really are, sorry for this, but a more personal touch as you wrote can be better for us, I hope. Let's start. Please, talk more about your profession, what exactly you do, if you like, these things. (I am afraid it seems a kind of inquiry, but it isn't, because when I met a person in my true life it's usual people talk about their lives, but in Internet, with some I know many things, but I noticed you don't like open your life. We can make an experience, and if you are not embarassed we can go on, or stop with it. Sweet kisses.

lovelythunder wrote on Oct 16, '10 Sweet Denise, You are right: and I would love to talk some more but I am also very happy with our friendship and the things we share here. You are an intriguing woman and I really want to know you better, if possible. If you want we continue like this but a more personal touch will be very welcome by me and I dearly hope you'll agree... kisses beijosssss John